Fixed or Mixed!

Hello Everyone,

This is my first blog and i want to share my experiences about relationships.

Fixed or Mixed as the name suggests, it’s a dilemma whether the person you meet or in a relationship with is going to fix your life or its going to be more miserable.

Sometimes, when you meet someone for the first time you feel good, you interact very well, you share your like , dislikes and it’s also the other way around. But hang on! It’s not the true picture people always put their best foot forward and this is the reason first meetings often becomes the last ones.

Now talking about relationships, the funniest part is most of the people don't even know whether it is love, infatuation or just liking. Now the difference between these 3 are quite similar yet different.

Love makes you a better person, its not a one day task its a process where as Infatuation is just momentary. On the other hand liking can be based upon appearance and behavior.

So how will you find out that he/she is the one, well in my case i believe in Magic. You don't have to fall in love, love finds its own way.

It’s quite possible that you are trying to fix something and it get mixed with all other things. Other people will think by seeing that it’s all fixed and settled but hey it’s all mixed up!

Your feelings, individuality, genre, objectives, all get mixed up when you are not with the right person.

How do you get to know if its Fixed or Mixed ?

Fixed

Love is a choice

You enjoy with each other doing your own respective work

You don’t need anyone else to make your day

Of course you don’t lie to each other no matter what.

You feel he/she is the only one who can understand you in this whole world

Fights are Normal

Mixed

Love is a moral duty

You annoy in each other’s presence

You always need other people to make you feel good

You often lie to each other to save your relationship

You feel everyone else will understand you but not he/she

Fights are always threat for separation

So guys, please don't Mix your life, Fix your life. Don't pay attention what people are saying just concentrate on what you want from a relationship and from the person you are with.

Please let me know if you think otherwise.

And please tell me are you FIXED or MIXED???

Till then take care and please excuse me if i made some mistake

Satakshi Bhardwaj